{"id":2965,"date":"2019-01-18T09:52:50","date_gmt":"2019-01-18T09:52:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ssdev.co.za\/crossroads-old\/?p=2965"},"modified":"2024-08-08T05:46:38","modified_gmt":"2024-08-08T05:46:38","slug":"fear-and-the-disease-of-addiction","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ssdev.co.za\/crossroads-old\/fear-and-the-disease-of-addiction\/","title":{"rendered":"The Connection Between Fear And The Disease Of Addiction"},"content":{"rendered":"<header><div class=\"contained\"><div><div><\/div><div class=\"content\"><h1>The Connection Between Fear And The Disease Of Addiction<\/h1><a href=\"#recoveryModal\" class=\"btn submit\" data-toggle=\"modal\">Reach out now, we can help<\/a><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/header><div id=\"crumbs\" class=\"contained\" data-is-podcasts=\"\"><a href=\"https:\/\/ssdev.co.za\/crossroads-old\">Home<\/a>  \/  <\/div><h3 data-date='18 January 2019' class='article-title'>The Connection Between Fear And The Disease Of Addiction<\/h3><div class='info'><span>18 January, 2019<\/span><span>Articles, News<\/span><\/div>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>What is fear?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>What is the connection between fear and the disease of addiction? <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\" aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Fear\" target=\"_blank\">Fear<\/a> is often referred to as an unpleasant emotion caused by the threat of danger, pain or harm. It also occurs when we perceive something or someone as likely to be dangerous, painful or harmful. Fear can cause a change in the body and the organs which can ultimately lead to a change in behavior. This can cause a fight or flight response in animals and humans such as running away from, hiding from or freezing when facing the perceived threat. In humans, fear is modulated by the process of&nbsp;cognition&nbsp;and learning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The question\nwe ask ourselves is, how does fear contribute or form part of the disease of\naddiction?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>The contribution of fear in terms of the disease of addiction<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Why do addicts choose to stay in the same revolving cycle of self-destruction? Why is it so difficult for addicts to keep clean, specifically in early recovery? The belief is that fear seems to <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\" aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.narconon.org\/blog\/drug-addiction\/fear-major-factor-addiction\/\" target=\"_blank\">play a major role in  addiction<\/a>. When most addicts use, they feel that they are invincible in some sense. All their troubles and fears that surround them seem to fall away and they feel that they can face life on life&rsquo;s terms easily and without worry. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A young girl\nonce told me that she started using drugs because she felt different, that she\nwould never be good enough or that she was worthless to society. This was why\nshe used drugs as it helped her to feel like she had a purpose and that people\naccepted her. She then later realised in early recovery that they were only\nusing her, and the feelings of worthlessness and loneliness crept in all over\nagain and this caused her relapse as she was fearful that she would never\nbelong. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The reality\nis, once the drugs stop working, the fear comes crashing down on them all over\nagain. Addicts are often driven by fear. The fear of the unknown, the fear of\nloneliness, fear of never being good enough, fear of worthlessness, the list\ngoes on and on. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Fear: irrational and rational<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>What is the difference <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\" aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.smartrecovery.org\/smart-articles\/rational-and-irrational-beliefs\/\" target=\"_blank\">between rational and irrational fear<\/a> in relation to addiction? Rational beliefs represent reasonable, objective, flexible, and constructive conclusions or inferences about reality that support survival, happiness, and healthy results whereas irrational beliefs cloud your consciousness with distortions, misconceptions, overgeneralizations, and oversimplifications. Irrational fears present themselves in conditions such as impulsiveness, arrogance, defeatism, condemnation, depression, anxiety, hostility, insecurity, addictions, procrastination, prejudice, envy, compulsions, and obsessions. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Irrational fears seem to be the leading cause as to why addicts relapse or continue to use drugs, as they possibly cause the addict to not be able to deal with life on life&rsquo;s terms leading to anxiety and panic which then leads to relapse. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>An example\nof rational fear would be the fear of death, relapse, financial security,\nrecovery, etc. An example of an irrational fear would be my husband is cheating\non me while I&rsquo;m in treatment, everybody judges me, I will never fit in, etc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>How do people with the disease of addiction live with fear:<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>For people in recovery, fear can never be removed, it can however, be outgrown. Fear is &lsquo;False evidence appearing real&rsquo; It is about the addict being able to manage the emotions and thoughts in a<a href=\"https:\/\/ssdev.co.za\/crossroads-old\/contact\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\"> healthy manner<\/a>. An addict needs to realize what the fear is, deciding whether it is a rational or irrational fear, and if they can do anything about it or if they need to let that fear go and surrender to a higher power. There are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.aacle.org\/fear-in-recovery\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\" aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\">many ways<\/a> to go about this and this includes prayer and meditation, writing them down so they are able to analyse them, <a href=\"https:\/\/ssdev.co.za\/crossroads-old\/the-program\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\">12 step fellowships<\/a>, to name a few. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The choice is up to the addict, do they want to <a href=\"https:\/\/ssdev.co.za\/crossroads-old\/types-of-addiction\/drug-addiction\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\">fear everything and run<\/a>, or face everything and recover.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dominique LeClaire Rossouw<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Connection Between Fear And The Disease Of Addiction Reach out now, we can help Home \/ The Connection Between Fear And The Disease Of Addiction 18 January, 2019Articles, News What is fear? 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