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The Intervention

10 July, 2020Articles, News

An addiction of any kind is extremely destructive. Failing health, divorce, loss of jobs, arrests, family tension, dropping out of school and ultimately death are just some of the results of addiction. These consequences apply when dealing with any addiction; substance abuse, alcoholism, gambling, sex addiction are the most common that require some form of intervention.

Watching a loved one battle the consequences of addiction is difficult and often these consequences affect the family and loved ones of the addict. The nature of addiction means that the addict very often is unaware or unable to see the real cost of the addiction, they rely on denial mechanisms to block out these horrible truths. If they are aware that the addiction is causing unmanageability in their lives they are unwilling to seek professional help and believe they can manage on their own.

An intervention is a deliberate process orchestrated by family and loved ones to get the addict to see their truth and hopefully seek professional help. It is used to motivate change and is usually a last ditch effort to facilitate the process. In most cases an addict seeks out help as a result of mounting consequences and unmanageability. The intervention process raises this “rock bottom” in the hope that the individual in question seeks out help sooner rather than later.

An intervention is when family and friends, with the help of a trained professional, confront the addict with facts and experiences of the addicts behaviour and the effect it has had on them and what action the addict needs to take next (Bottom Lines) also what the consequences will be if the addict does not follow through with the professional help provided (consequences). The process is planned and structured; the addict is usually unaware of what they are walking into.

There is no clear data on the success rates of interventions, as the outcomes are always different. An addict must be willing to want the help, and must have the right motivation to enter life in recovery. The danger is that this process could drive the individual further away – they may feel bullied or unwanted.

It is important to consult a professional when planning an intervention, this could be a doctor, addictions counsellor, psychologist or psychiatrist. The intervention process is an emotionally charged event and proper guidance and planning is needed for the desired outcomes.

The Process:

  • Have a plan; consult with a professional and relevant family and friends. Have treatment options ready
  • Collect information; between the parties involved, collect information regarding the addict – the behaviour, experiences and consequences resulting from the addiction
  • Decide on who will be apart of the intervention, family, friends, trained professional
  • Decide on specific consequences if the addict does not follow through and accept the help. Each of the members of the intervention “team” must decide on what they will do if the addict does not go into treatment – move out, allowance cut off, divorce etc.
  • Make sure you know what you need to say – a good suggestion is to have letters prepared
  • Get the addict to the intervention site, it is best that they do not know what is about to happen. Present the letters to the addict. The members of the intervention team take turns presenting their experiences; what changes they need to see and what consequences there will be if the addict does not agree to go into treatment. Do not make any threats if you are not willing to follow through with them
  • Outcome achieved, addict agrees to go to treatment and is taken directly to the facility.

Not all interventions are successful, often the addict will not accept the help and the situation can get heated. It is important that the members of the intervention team stand firm on the consequences to follow when the addict refuses the help. Be prepared for this. It is an emotional process, hold firm on bottom lines. Family and friends must able to remove themselves from the destructive situation and choose to no longer support the addicts behaviour.

A successful Intervention is well planned and structured. Consultation with a professional interventionist is always the best option. The process can be daunting, emotional, draining and sometimes scary – but it could be the push the addict needs to get help.

Resources

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/when-your-adult-child-breaks-your-heart/201408/drug-and-alcohol-interventions-do-they-work

https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/mental-illness/in-depth/intervention/art-20047451

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intervention_(counseling)

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What Does a Drug Recovery Treatment Programme Entail?

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What Does a Drug Recovery Treatment Programme Entail?

09 July, 2020Articles, News

Recovery from addiction in any form is a process that cannot be done in isolation. That’s a lesson that many recovering addicts have come to learn and appreciate. For many, recovery begins with going through a rehabilitation process that may involve a recovery treatment programme.

It is often the case that clients arrive at treatment centres with a preconceived notion about what rehabilitation is. Many of them feel fearful and apprehensive about the process. While it is true that indeed it can be a challenging process, many addicts also find it to be an enlightening and uplifting process – one that could indeed change the course of their lives.

At Crossroads Recovery Centres, we apply a range of therapeutic methodologies in the treatment of addiction, but at the crux of our recovery treatment programme, is the Narcotics Anonymous programme which includes 12 fundamental steps. These steps form the basis of a new way of life for many recovery addicts. They include coming to understand one’s powerlessness against addiction in any form, taking inventory of aspects such as guilt, shame and resentment and making amends to people whom the addict may have hurt.

The 12 steps offer a simple, spiritual, not religious way to recover from drug addiction, one day at a time. As part of the recovery treatment programme at Crossroads Recovery Centres, we ensure that clients are introduced to the 12 steps during their stay.

We recommend a minimum stay of 28 days, during which clients will be expected to complete the first 3 steps in writing, as well as a life story. Clients who stay for an additional 28 days will be expected to complete steps 4 to 8. Finally, clients who stay for the full duration of 84 days, will complete all 12 steps as part of the programme.

Upon leaving the treatment centre, clients will have the option of attending 12-step meetings that are relevant to their particular addiction. In this regard, there are a number 12-step fellowships around the world for various kinds of addictions like drugs, sex, gambling and food addiction.

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Recovering from Alcoholism – what does it entail?

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Recovering from Alcoholism – what does it entail?

26 June, 2020Articles, News

Alcoholism, according to the disease model of recovery, is a chronic illness that causes trauma on a number of different levels, not only in the life of the alcoholic, but in the lives of everyone with whom they come into contact. Recovery from alcoholism, in many regards, involves a multi-pronged approach. What we know about this form of addiction is that there is no one, simple way of recovery. In fact, the recovering alcoholic will be faced with many choices and important changes that are crucial to whether he/she will recover in the long-term. This includes the kind of people with whom they choose to associate, the places they visit and even the activities in which they engage. Recovery is a lifelong, life-changing process, but we encourage recovering alcoholics to think of their process as a “one day at a time,” experience.

Depending on the level of alcohol in the individual’s system, a detoxification process may be required. It is important that this process is facilitated and monitored by a medical professional who is able to check the client’s vital signs and ensure that the process is as comfortable as possible. The nature and length of this process will depend entirely on the physical and mental state of the individual client. We therefore treat each detox process on a case-by-case basis.

After detox, the client will join the rest of the therapeutic community in group sessions. The goal of treatment at Crossroads Recovery Centres is to help our clients build foundations for long-term abstinence. This involves focusing on making changes in the way recovering alcoholics live their lives, face problems and relate to themselves and the world around them.

For many, recovering from alcoholism may not seem possible, but we believe that one day at a time, one step at a time, it can become a reality. We understand the importance of building a support network that extends beyond the treatment programme, which is why we deem it imperative to introduce recovering alcoholics to the Alcoholics Anonymous 12 step fellowship during their time at the facility. This ensures that they have a long-term plan for recovery and that after treatment, they have the support they need to live free from the clutches of alcoholism.

If you or a loved one is in search of help for addiction in any form, know that help is readily available. Contact us for a free consultation and we’ll support you in your journey.

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Is Alcohol Fueling South Africa’s GBV crisis?

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Is Alcohol Fueling South Africa’s GBV crisis?

18 June, 2020Articles, News

The link between alcohol and levels of violence in South Africa has been greatly debated since the 1st of June, when the ban on the sale of alcohol was lifted. Our society experiences massive levels of gender based violence and subsequent to the lifting of restriction of alcohol sale, 21 women have been murdered in domestic violence incidents.

The question thus arises; “Are we able to demonstrate a link between alcohol use and gender based violence? “

In the President’s speech last night, he is quoted as saying, “In particular, we need to examine the effect of alcohol abuse not only on levels of violence, but also on road accidents and reckless behaviour. Several international and domestic studies show clear linkages between alcohol abuse and gender-based violence.”

Unsurprisingly, 85% of the victims of gender based violence are female, according to the United States Bureau of Justice Statistics. Women experience intimate partner violence at a 5-8 times higher rate than men and most of the partner abuse takes place in the home.

Domestic violence as a legal term includes different forms of abuse :

  • Physical acts, such as hitting, punching, slapping or pulling of hair;
  • Sexual abuse including rape, marital rape, treating a partner in a sexually abusive and demeaning way, and molestation,
  • Emotional abuse for example intentional and malicious attacks on a partner’s self-worth, and,
  • Psychological abuse including controlling the partner, blackmail, threatening harm to children, violence toward pets, and intimidation.

Violence against an intimate partner can also include stalking, social isolation (for example, not letting an intimate partner leave the house), and depriving them of resources and necessities.

Various studies have identified substance abuse as a factor in 40-60% of incidents of domestic violence, either in precipitating the abuse or exacerbating it. A study by the WHO shows that alcohol use increases both the occurrence and severity of the violence against an intimate partner. More than 20% of male perpetrators of intimate partner violence (IPV) had used alcohol or drugs immediately before the most recent incidents of violence. The Sonke Gender Justice Project conducted research into the relationship between alcohol abuse gender-based violence (GBV) in 2016. According to their studies, women with male partners who “come home drunk frequently” are 4 to 7 times more likely to suffer violence than those whose partners drink infrequently. Perpetrators of gender based violence are 5 times more likely than non-perpetrators to consume alcohol . Male-to-female aggression is 11 times more likely to occur on days when perpetrators have consumed alcohol. The Sonke Project have has also documented links between alcohol abuse and the transmission of HIV, where – problem drinkers had a 2.0 fold higher prevalence of HIV then non-problem drinkers.

Women in abusive relationships often report that their abusive partner coerced them into engaging in alcohol and drug consumption, although, even where women do not commonly engage in harmful alcohol use, men’s drinking is a risk factor. For example, a four-country study from Asia-Pacific, found if a woman’s partner drank alcohol regularly, they were more likely to experience intimate partner violence.

A study aimed at understanding the drivers of intimate partner violence (IPV), perpetrated by men and experienced by women, shows that there are multiple scenarios in which alcohol abuse leads to increases in intimate partner violence. “Consuming harmful levels of alcohol can lead to more frequent quarrelling about finances and household responsibilities, as money and time are spent drinking. For couples who often drink together, there may be alcohol-related diminishment of cognitive functioning, increasing the likelihood of arguments in relationships becoming violent. Qualitative research in one IPV prevention trial in South Africa, Stepping Stones and Creating Futures, found that one way women sought to reduce their IPV risk was not arguing with their male partner if he, or she herself, were drunk. While not transforming gender relationships, this was an important harm reduction strategy that emphasized how alcohol, quarrelling and IPV are interlinked”.

On the 1st of June, videos went viral of queues of people waiting to get into outlets to buy alcohol. Although less than a third of adult South Africans drink alcohol, almost six out of 10 drinkers engage in binge drinking, according to a 2018 World Health Organisation report. The same study ranks South Africa as the 6th heaviest drinkers in the world. South Africans who consume alcohol, drink the equivalent of 5.4 standard drinks per day. There can be little doubt that South Africans have a problematic relationship with alcohol.

Although this article has focused on violence against women, it should not be forgotten that violence fuelled by drug and alcohol consumption also takes place in same-sex relationships. Lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgendered individuals have higher rates of substance abuse than the general population, often due to the prejudice that many of them face in their lives, and this may manifest in violence carried out within their domestic unions.

As President Cyril Ramaphosa said, “We need to draw the lessons from this lockdown and decide how we can protect our society from the abuse of alcohol. Certainly, we need to provide greater support to people with drinking problems, including through rehabilitation and treatment…..Of course, it is not alcohol that rapes or kills a woman or a child. Rather, it is the actions of violent men. But if alcohol intoxication is contributing to these crimes, then it must be addressed with urgency”

Alcohol addiction is widespread due to its easy accessibility and social acceptance. If compulsive and uncontrolled alcohol consumption, binge drinking, blackouts and reckless behaviour under the influence dominate your life, you may be an alcoholic. If you or a loved one needs help with addiction or alcoholism, contact us for a consultation.

Resources :

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/16549716.2020.1739845

https://apps.who.int/iris/bitstream/handle/10665/274603/9789241565639-eng.pdf?ua=1

https://www.sanews.gov.za/south-africa/murder-spike-noted-level-3

https://www.who.int/violence_injury_prevention/violence/world_report/factsheets/ft_intimate.pdf

http://www.dirco.gov.za/docs/speeches/2020/cram0617.pdf

https://genderjustice.org.za/article/alcohol-abuse-linked-gender-based-violence-increased-alcohol-prices-not-liquor-amendment-bill/

https://bhekisisa.org/opinion/2020-06-11-why-did-south-africa-ban-alcohol-during-lockdown-covid19-coronavirus-evidence/

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